Friend : "Amit yaar, this Internet just does'nt start."
Me : "Just restart the modem once and check"
And often it works miraculously and this not only applies to Internet or computer but on many day to day things. If a light does'nt light up or mobile is hung or car not starting or just abt anything we usually say, "Band karke chalu kar" or else "Hold on for sometime, it will start automatically", without knowing the logic, coz we believe, there is some problem somewhere which we dont know and by just switching it off and back on or by just waiting for a while may make it work. And we mostly think "POSITIVE" about that notion.
But how many of us apply this to our day to day lives, in our Personal relationships. We have so many problems with our own people about which we keep on complaining everyday to our ourselves and to everyone who is ready to listen to our problems. Everyday a new1.
Some1 having problem with their husbands, some with their in laws, some with boss and some with their siblings and so on and so forth. Why dont we apply this basic principle which we usually apply for our Non living objects, where in we being the intelligent species shud be 1st to adapt to such a principle. But we dont.
Just imagine - Could you give a fresh new chance to an existing spoilt relationship, by just forgetting what happened in the past and take a new life forward. Can we take a new drawing canvas and draw a beautiful life, instead of trying to improve the already spoilt painting.
Try it once. For once, forget all the anguish against the person, and imagine a positive life with him / her. Let go off all your ego. Let your partner not accept the change. He / she may not. But whe n you stick on to change it the other person will fall in naturally. And think POSITIVE about the change.
In a nutshell, as rightly to put by Kamiya in her blog, "you should just set yourself free and LET GO. Because if you don't, you will wake up every morning hating him or her a little more… You will never be able to live it down. It will fester inside you like a silent predatory illness and ultimately bring everything down."